by Cynthia | Jul 22, 2021 | Hope and a Future, Parents, Peace, Tried and True Techniques, Uncategorized
Oh the things I said I’d never do. We all had a “list” didn’t we? Like never feeding my kids junk food or pop until at least age five. Drive my kids around until they are sleeping. Or let them get away with screaming their heads off in...
by Cynthia | Apr 7, 2020 | Uncategorized
The Pressure Cooker of Comparison and How to Get Out We so desire for things to function as they were designed but this can trip us up when we focus so intently on it. “What we focus on we give power to.” Let me explain this further to help you better understand what...
by Cynthia | Mar 31, 2020 | Parents, Peace, Transitions and Fixations
I spent many years in a heap trying to navigate a sparkly-blue-eyed, but explosive child. A lot of our family life is on pause as he has very specific social needs. He arrived in this world and forced me onto a completely different grid…there was nothing mainstream...
by Cynthia | Mar 24, 2020 | Peace
Here’s what you really need and how to get it! We all want peace. In our relationships, in our homes, at work. Desperately we wait for the weekend or days off or time away from our kids to experience some peacefulness. Then Monday rolls us back to ‘reality’ and...
by Cynthia | Feb 11, 2020 | Hope and a Future, Parents, Transitions and Fixations
The heater blows full, on high, warming the van before we take off on a quick zip to see family. It was our oldest sons’ idea to go a couple days ago and we aligned our Sunday plans to fulfill his request. But as the classical notes from the CD player breathe through...
I'm Cynthia Fehr and I'm here to remind you of what is POSSIBLE. Once I was under the crushing weight of a child who was like a tornado of tantrums with no calm unless he was sleeping. We now have a connection that can't be stolen. I want that for you too. Go get a cup of coffee...I wanna hear your story ❤️ 